‘The Prince of Los Cocuyos’ by Richard Blanco
Author: Adrian Brooks
January 6, 2015
Richard Blanco’s autobiography of childhood is the tale of the first Latino, the first immigrant and the first out-front gay person to address the nation at a U.S. Presidential inauguration–and what a book it is! Sly, subversive and as funny as the early work of David Sedaris, it is also a joyful slice of Cuban-American life, as well as a poetic, profound and profoundly beautiful coming-of-age story of a boy raised in Florida in the ’70s and ’80s.
Instead of applying a standard narrative, Blanco serves up a colorful series of chronological vignettes. Each is multi-layered, builds upon the one before while bridging to the next, and culminates in a pointed but exquisitely rendered resolution.
From growing up obviously gay and being told, “It’s better to be it and not look like it, than to look like it even if you are not it,” he observes life with wonder and apprehension, underscored when his working class family goes to Miami for a bargain-basement holiday. Upon arriving, he sees the mainly Jewish retiree residents: “The men’s bald heads glowing in the sun and the women’s silver hair, teased into thin nests, shining like halos.” But once inside the hotel and safely out of view of his forbidding grandmother with his two teenage cousins, “I could blow-dry Carla’s hair, put lipstick and eye shadow on Denise, maybe even paint my fingernails with clear polish, I dared to daydream.”
The lonely child starts to see. His mother is “flapping her new sandals covered in plastic daisies and sporting her faux Pierre Cardin sunglasses that made her look like a giant fly.” But as he attempts the first steps to functional identity, he intuits the strain that it will place on family and community ties. “I’m a little from everywhere,” he decides.
The passage from being an overweight boy nicknamed Lardo, who realizes “there was no do-over for me,” to a handsome, pumped adolescent is rendered brilliantly. As Blanco ricochets from a first-generation vision of the Promised Land–dazzled by its bright chrome and packaged supermarket food, he tries to straddle his own sense of being American with his sometimes tawdry but raucous Cuban roots. Family gatherings, with a neo-pagan quality of preparing or consuming meals, contrast with the grinding hard work of a family scrimping to get by while dreaming of middle-class security.
When Blanco reads T.S. Eliot’s “Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock,” the inescapable requirement to excavate his own subsumed True Self is stirred–and when that inevitable first attraction does come in the form of one too old for a teenager, he wonders, “Do I dare disturb the universe? Dare to kiss him, feel his stubble against my palm, the fine hairs of his chest through my fingers?”
In time, the journey towards personhood leads him towards a likely partner. But there are no simple fixes, even in a book as wonderful as this. Even so, Blanco had, indeed, followed his heart and could hear the mermaids sing.
Finally, “listening… made everything and everyone come to life.” And when he swims a warm sea with love a possibility, at last, “we were one: one boy who had almost drowned, one man lost at sea without another man… one and the same, with one nameless country for a moment, until we slowly loosened our embrace.”
By then, for the budding gay man and artist, and for a nation who heard him speak at Barack Obama’s second Inauguration, “I’d heard the mermaids not only sing to me, but carry me away with them to the place where my poems would whisper from.”
His journey isn’t simply one of a radiant soul, it illuminates the autobiography of “the Prince of the fireflies”, one written and shared with integrity, warmth, humor and passion. The reader is invited to both bear witness and be Cuban-American for a spell-dancing on the beach with a colorful, raucous, sometimes infuriating, oftentimes outrageous family in a book, which I recommend highly.
The Prince of Los Cocuyos: A Miami Childhood
By Richard Blanco
Hardcover, 9780062313768, 249 pp.