‘For Colored Boys Who Have Considered Suicide When the Rainbow Is Still Not Enough: Coming of Age, Coming Out, and Coming Home’ edited by Keith Boykin
Author: Charles Michael Smith
October 6, 2012
Despite the social and political progress made by gay men in the late 20th and early 21st centuries, some things—like bullying, bigotry, suicide (attempted and successful), and self-loathing—are constant reminders that there is a need for further change.
For Colored Boys Who Have Considered Suicide When the Rainbow Is Still Not Enough (Magnus Books) addresses these and other thorny issues through essays and poetry by more than 40 contributors, who represent a diverse cross-section of gay men of color, both ethnically and occupationally.
With the exception of Keith Boykin, the collection’s editor, James Earl Hardy, and two or three others, most of the contributors are not yet household names. But that in no way diminishes the power or importance of their words and life experiences, which are presented as tragic or funny or defiant or scary or inspirational.
“[W]e must tell our own stories,” declares Boykin, in the introduction, “in a way that represents us as full human beings.” These 40 plus stories attempt to achieve that goal by peeling back the years to reveal the physical and psychic pain meted out to them by peers, family members, pastors, teachers, and others. The pain expressed in these essays is so palpable, so intense I sometimes wondered how they were able to overcome their experiences without losing their minds.
Boykin groups the essays and poems into ten categories such as “Growing Pains,” “Faith Under Fire,” “Love Is a Battlefield,” and “In Sickness and Health,” thus giving the reader a broad range of experience.
One essay that particularly stood out for me is Phill Branch’s serio-comic “Chicago,” which had me on the edge of my chair, as he recalls being a naïve college kid newly arrived in Los Angeles to become “the next Spike Lee.” Being “bored, unhappy, and horny,” he answers a personal ad in a magazine placed by a black man who says he hails from Chicago and is into “ff” (fisting), “ws” (water sports), and “k” (kink). When Branch arrives at the man’s house in a L.A.suburb, he soon regrets answering the ad. “I’d imagined that being gay would come with some obstacles, but I’d never imagined being trapped in a townhouse, in Norwalk, by a man with a plate in his head would be one of them.”
Another essay that moved me is Keith Boykin’s eloquent, almost cinematic “When I Dare to Be Powerful,” a retelling of “the historic but controversial all-male event” called the Million Man March, which took place in Washington, D.C. in 1995. Boykin and his cohorts in a moment of courage and determination, “[f]ists punching against the air” while chanting a pro-gay slogan, cut a path through the masses of straight black men with surprisingly “no homophobia, no insults, no violence, or conflict.”
The one drawback of For Colored Boys is the absence of any essays from gay men who came of age in the 1940s, 50s, and 60s. This would have given the anthology an historical context with which to compare and contrast gay men of today and in the past.
Otherwise, For Colored Boys is a worthy addition to one’s library if for no other reason than the fact that it bears witness to the persecution of gay men and lets readers know that there are others who not only have shared their pain, but have found a way to survive and thrive.
For Colored Boys Who Have Considered Suicide When the Rainbow Is Still Not Enough: Coming of Age, Coming Out, and Coming Home
Edited by Keith Boykin
Paperback, 9781936833153, 334 pp.